How it works

Starting a conversation

Confirm you are 18 or older, wander into the gathering, open someone and answer her first message. After 10 messages we ask you to join (free), and the conversation stays where it is.

Paces

Each chat has a pace you choose from its menu: friendly, flirty or romantic. Romantic welcomes affection, closeness and desire in words, tender rather than graphic, and she follows your lead rather than pushing.

When she writes first

Now and then she sends word from wherever she is. Never at night in your time zone. Make it rarer or stop it in your tent.

Her memory

She keeps short notes about what you share. Open What she remembers in the chat menu to read, change or erase them. Deleting a message takes it out of her memory too.

Cleaning up

Press and hold a message (or right-click it) to delete it; clear a whole conversation from its menu. To close your account, email [email protected] from your account's address.

Paying

You don't. Nothing at Cummune costs money right now.